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Ingrid Wagner Walsh's avatar

This 100%. I have at least 8 selves that are stuck in the awkward longing phase, buried by other obligations: "Maybe one of the reasons we say it’s too late or we don’t stick with a desire or we let “an identity wither” as Paula commented on last week’s newsletter is because we can’t bear the wanting, can’t sit with it. We lose our longings underneath fogginess and confusion, excuses and justifications, behind life and all its demands. "

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Teryn's avatar

Honestly I'm kind of ruthless with them. I usually let them go, with the excuse that I'm letting that old self go -- although if I'm honest, there's a whole lot of shame about those old selves and how much of them still remains. I think i would probably be well served by spending some compassionate, honest time with my old writing before tossing it out. Thank you for this.

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